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		<title>Grief Support Group</title>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Support for loss through suicide is best with its own support group as the grieving experience through a loved one taking their own life is unique and comprises its own set of grief dynamics.</p>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><p>Written by: Pam Gillingham</p></div>
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<p>A grief support group provides its members with a safe, non-judgemental holding space where each member receives and gives support and connection with others who have lost loved ones. It has been found that sharing with and listening to people who have also experienced loss, offers a different type of emotional support to individual therapy. The group process does not necessarily replace individual counselling, however it provides an environment where healing can evolve through the mutual sharing with others who are also grieving, as well as it providing additional knowledge and skills that help one cope on a day-to-day basis.</p>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h3><span>BENEFITS OF JOINING A GRIEF SUPPORT GROUP</span><span></span></h3>
<p>Some of the benefits of joining a grief support group are:</p>
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<li>A safe environment that is understanding, non-judgmental and supportive, and where stories can be shared and feelings expressed freely.</li>
<li>Connections with others and a decreased sense of aloneness and isolation that is often experienced in bereavement.</li>
<li>A setting to explore a variety of grief patterns. This helps to normalise the varied emotional reactions that can often feel “abnormal”, strange or scary.</li>
<li>Learning the many different ways that people grieve based on cultural, religious, or societal norms.</li>
<li>The development of new coping skills including learning grounding and relaxation techniques, stress management skills, sleep techniques and useful skills to help with daily life shared by the group.</li>
<li>Through the process of group sharing, members feel supported and validated. This promotes a sense of strength and builds confidence.</li>
<li>Healing starts and becomes a supported and shared experience through education and group participation.</li>
<li>Irrespective of the nature of the loss, the commonality of the loss experience and its complexities of emotions provides enough commonality for growth, learning and healing.</li>
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<p>Support for loss through suicide is best with its own support group as the grieving experience through a loved one taking their own life is unique and comprises its own set of grief dynamics.</p></div>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 15 Mar 2022 12:44:52 +0000</pubDate>
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					<description><![CDATA[<p>Spouses owe each other a duty of support and this may continue after divorce. It can be defined in one of two ways: Rehabilitative Spousal Maintenance or Rehabilitative Spousal Maintenance</p>
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<p>Spouses owe each other a duty of support and this may continue after divorce. It can be defined in one of two ways: <strong>Ongoing Spousal Maintenance or Rehabilitative Spousal Maintenance.</strong></p></div>
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<p>This is for a short period of time (typically around 6 months) to enable the spouse in need to find employment.<span></span></p>
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<h3>Ongoing Spousal Maintenance</h3>
<p>This is maintenance until the spouse’s (the one who needs the financial support) death, remarriage or cohabitation.  The award of this type of spousal maintenance depends on a number of factors:</p>
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<li>Spouse’s age</li>
<li>Duration of marriage</li>
<li>Employment prospects (skills)</li>
<li>Ability to work (health)</li>
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<p><strong>NEED vs ABILITY TO PAY</strong></p>
<p><strong>Need</strong> is determined by looking at the expenses of the spouse in need, taking into account any income.  There is only a “need” if the spouse is unable to cover his/her own expenses in their entirety.</p>
<p><strong>The ability to pay</strong> is calculated by determining if the other spouse has the financial ability to assist, and to what extent.</p></div>
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<p>The Act defines “parental responsibilities and rights” as being either “full” or “specific”. Parental responsibilities and rights include</p>
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<li>the care of the child,</li>
<li>contact with the child,</li>
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<p>A parent may hold all these rights and responsibilities or some of them. The Children’s Act promotes joint parenting.</p>
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<p>This right belongs to both parents (married and in some instances, unmarried).Care relates to:</p>
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<p>Both married parents, and unmarried parents (in certain circumstances) are joint guardians and this continues after divorce or separation. It is only in exceptional circumstances that a court will remove a parent’s guardianship.</p>
<p>As guardians, parents sign indemnities and other documents on behalf of their children.</p>
<p>There are, however, circumstances where both guardians need to asset a minor child:</p>
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<li>Application for a passport</li>
<li>Consent to marry while still a minor</li>
<li>The adoption of the child</li>
<li>The removal of the child from South Africa by either parent or by a third party</li>
<li>The purchase or sale of immovable property (land)</li>
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<p>This issue should be dealt with on a case by case basis, always taking into account the child’s views and wishes, as well as the child’s sporting, social, scholastic and religious commitments.</p>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h2><span>Maintenance of children</span></h2>
<p>The financial support of children is the legal and moral duty of both parents, regardless of whether or not they were ever married. Such a duty of support is based on the following:</p>
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<li>A relationship between the child and the parent</li>
<li>The need of the child to receive financial support</li>
<li>The ability of the parent to pay</li>
<li>The best interests of the child</li>
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				<div class="et_pb_text_inner"><h3>What is Maintenance For?</h3>
<p>Every child has the right to reasonable maintenance to provide:</p>
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<li>clothing</li>
<li>medical, dental and health care</li>
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<li>food</li>
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<h3>How long do you have to pay maintenance?</h3>
<p>This duty of support usually ends when the child becomes self-supporting which may or may not be at the time when the child reaches 18. For as long as the child needs financial support, the parent is obliged to pay maintenance.</p></div>
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<h3>#1: Pro-Rata</h3>
<p>The parties are to contribute to the expenses of their children according to their means. For example, if mom earns R5,000 and dad earns R10,000 then the total combined income is R15,000. Therefore, Mom earns 33% of the combined income (5000/15000*100 = 33%) and dad 67%.</p>
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<h3>#2: Need vs. Ability to Pay</h3>
<p>If the child’s expenses are R3000, then based on the example above, the mom is to pay 33% of R3000, which is R1000. Dad is to pay 67% which is R2000.</p>
<p>The question is then asked whether mom and dad can afford their pro-rata share once their own reasonable expenses have been paid. If not, cuts have to be made to the budget for all the parties to try and make it fit.</p>
<p>This financial aspect should be revisited on an annual basis to ensure that the pro-rata share is fair and that both parties are able to pay their contribution.</p></div>
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